Ask most people what a coach does and they'll describe a wise advisor: someone who listens for a while, then tells you what to do. It's a natural assumption — and it's precisely what good coaching is not.
The OPTIONS Coaching model, developed and refined by Denise Archie across three decades of practice, is built on a different premise: the person being coached already holds more answers than they can currently see. The coach's job is to structure a conversation that surfaces them, tests them, and turns the best one into committed action.
A conversation built on OPTIONS moves through distinct territory. It opens by establishing what the person actually wants from the session — not the vague topic, but the outcome. It explores the present situation honestly, which is often where the real work happens: most of us have practised our own version of events so long we've stopped noticing what we're leaving out. Only then does it move to generating options — plural, deliberately, because the first idea is rarely the best one — before closing on a specific, willed commitment to act.
The discipline in the model is what makes it work. Without structure, coaching conversations collapse into sympathetic chat: pleasant, warm and useless. With it, a thirty-minute conversation can move someone further than a month of private circling.
What surprises new coaches most in training is how little they end up saying. The skill isn't in brilliant advice — it's in the quality of the questions and the willingness to let silence do its work. That's a learnable craft, and watching someone acquire it is one of the pleasures of coach training.
If you're the person colleagues already come to — the informal counsellor of your workplace or family — you already have the raw material. The model is how raw material becomes profession.
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